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red flags commonly found in cheaters
Lying over seemingly inconsequential things.
Them having strong walls inbetween you and different groups of people. A SO doesn't need to take you everywhere but if it seems like there is strong resistance to you meeting people or going to an activity that can be a red flag.
Seeming to have an immediate need to do something that doesn't really need to be taken care of as an urgent need or having weird reasons for their schedule, that on the surface don't seem unreasonable but there is a strictness or urgency that just seems off.
Odd inconsistency in intimacy levels. Everyone will be intimate situationally so of course the level of intimacy varies, but if it becomes oddly unpredictable that can be a red flag.