Excuse the wall of text but i have to get this off my chest. TLDR: Ended the best relationship I had by turning it into the worst relationship I've had.
I had an ex of mine cheat on me so i decided to rebound with one of my friends. We fuck constantly and sort of just become bf/gf. She monitors my actions constantly due to her ex also cheating on her. Gets angry a lot about me being friends with females and going out with my bros to parties so i buckle down and stop to appease her.
Big mistake.
In her mind i become boring and annoying since I basically have no life anymore. I was a charming guitarist who was extremely socially active, heavy smoker (pothead) and a heavier drinker but this one girl didn't like who i was once she had to be in a monogamous relationship with me. I say had because she felt trapped with me after I made my changes for her. I quit being in bands, smoking, drinking, deleted all forms of social media and it bit me in the ass hard.
She was never the type of girl to have many friends and was a loner. I met her at a party and that first night i had to help her find her earrings that she lost while getting railed by some guy (didn't think anything of it then). So when she started having friends (only guys because "girls are bitches") and ignoring me for them, i obviously got hurt. Here I was giving all my time and effort into this one girl who i was sure wasn't into me anymore and was just using me for my company and money. She would even try to end our relationship multiple times and I was such a romantic fool with this being my first serious LTR that i always fought to have her.
I eventually ended up giving up on her after she got mad over a youtube video (hot girls at the world cup) and dumped me. Hurt, I sought comfort in my coworkers vagina at a getaway we had. I got over her pretty quickly as me and my coworker were constantly hooking up.
One day i get a called from my ex and of course its i miss you and i love you and her just trying to get me to crawl back because she's feeling lonely and I reluctantly heed her sirens call. She just knew the right things to say to me.
...however, my dumbass was not letting my new piece of ass get away and one night she did the greatest thing you can do for a guy you're fucking, bring two of your friends with you to have sex.
Now let me back up a bit and say when I first got with my fwb it was at a cabin in the woods with all of my coworkers and it was solely because of my ability to be genuine with everyone while partying my ass off. By partying my ass off i mean I went to this cabin to clear my head of my relationship crumbling. I took shrooms, i got lost in the woods, drank more than i would ever again. Some point within the trip I had gone streaking as a dare and she told she liked what she say (humble brag).
Anyways... her friends wanted to see what all her fuss was about and ended up using me as a sex toy, greatest moment that would be the catalyst of my downfall.
So I end opening my big mouth and telling my friends what I had just experienced, if i could even call them friends. Shortly after all of my coworkers know and I'm surely my ex has found out. Whenever i interacted with my ex she was cold and harsh but still wanted my company, we no longer had romantic feelings for each other and were just sort of there.
One day at work I overhear my coworkers talking about my ex and how she is plotting revenge for my foursome. I confront my coworkers and they shrug me off and act oblivious. Meanwhile, my ex is making plans to have sex with each and every one of my "friends". Unbeknownst to me she does and I don't know who else she has had sex with so now i have to get tested because i stupidly always had unprotected sex with her... I also found out she had been with her ex while being with me.
Icing on the cake of my story is that I paid for her cell phone and saw all the interactions and fucks take place after the fact. So i just cancelled the phone and shes calling me up from her house phone "crying" about not getting to have her cell phone...
Also, i went out last night with a few of the people who i know were with her and I've become a joke to my whole social circle. I thanked them for exposing her for who she was and left.