[Seduction], [attraction] or what? How to advance?

Thanks Emack76. But I think you are misunderstanding. I'm not pushing anything on her. I'm quoting my own response to another gentleman in this thread below.
"The place I come from polygamy is socially acceptable. I was born to my dad's second wife but I consider my dad's first wife as my real mom. But my dad loved both of them equally. In our society, women have been suppressed socially, sexually and emotionally. I do NOT approve of that. That is why I was saying rather crudely that if she is just looking for just an outlet from her arranged marriage, she should not be bound by some crappy social norms. Please note that when I realized I liked her (and my dick liked her, like you put it), my first and immediate action was to speak with her and break the relationship completely. I told her clearly that I can't pretend to be platonic with her. It was on her insistence that this is continuing for four months. Divorce in my culture is like a death sentence. Even if the women remarries, she will be scorned by her relatives, society, parents, etc. and worse, the shaming percolates to the children as well. So if such a woman is looking for an outlet, I was saying that I don't mind being that person who will make her feel special and she is indeed special. I have no disrespect for her. English is not my first language. Sorry if my comment came out disrespectful.".

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