Ya but most women don't see it that way.

I'm like OP, have an ass play fetish, I've shared it with 3 completely different women I dated, each one was on a different spot on the scale of sexuality, from reserved, to very liberal.

Each one, basically, as soon as I told them, our relationships (each one) went straight to a dead bedroom, then arguing, fighting, followed by each of them cheating on me, and then throwing my fetish in my face as the reason for why they cheated, because "Why do you care? You're a butt pounder anyways!"

These were not mean girls, these were run of the mill, talk to their mamas on the weekends, not party girls, or drug addicts, just plain ol' women.

I always thought that women were into a guy that was into his own sexuality and was comfortable with it, but, in my own experience this has been miles from the truth.

Oh, and each one, after we broke up, told not only my family, but my friends about it, and one of them even took my dildo to my mom's house and showed it to her and said "This is what your son is into and why I can't be with him!" and my mom agreed with her, told me I was a "fa&$ot" and I haven't been invited to thanksgiving since 1997... Good times!

I don't share my fetish with women either, the ones that are accepting of it, tend to be girls that are bisexual or lesbian, they like filling holes, but most straight women, instantly degrade you and think you're gay. You lose your man card, and the relationship spirals.

Also, they always eventually start saying things like "Are you SURE that you're not gay?" Ya I'm fkn sure, why would I own a dildo and only do it when you're out of town if I'm wanting to actively seek out REAL human men. Plus, men disgust me, I'd rather get shot than have stinky man breath on me.