I have an issue of being sex deprived as well. I need some help. The only time she even seems remotely horny is through sexting. Last time we had sex is two months ago and approaching three. She gets emotional and defensive about it when I talk to her. I did talk to her and it didn't let up. She's sweet, and loving and I love her with all my heart. That is a reason I do not want to pressure her. But jeez it just feels horrible to not get any, being the only one making advances and being rejected or given reason that she is not in the mood despite the sexting we do days before seeing each other. It sucks, and I do not expect anything of her. No one should, really. If she doesn't want to give it, I can live with that. But honestly, I'm looking for a solution to help me bite the bullet on this. While I focus on the other aspects on our relationship, gonna try to take her on better dates because she's that special of a woman for me. Maybe do a few more sweet gestures and whatnot, that is for me to work on for myself. What can I do for myself to get as close as possible to having these needs/desires met? Or at least give myself the illusion that they are being met. They feel like desires, but I will keep that up in the air with an open mind. This is me trying to do something to take care of myself from my own end here, so let's leave her out of this.

I know this may be a longshot. Because if the answer was easily reached, I think a lot of men wouldn't even need to find a girlfriend. But I think it's worth a try to find something. Note, I am 22 years old who already jacked off once everyday for years. I'm sure I have a very strong libido and I think I would love the daily dose of intercourse. But simply stroking with porn at best simply isn't as fun anymore. So help me find a solution, please.

Thanks for your time.