Decent people have decent breakup as well, so if anyone is having a really terrible breakup and all awkward afterward, then I would assume they are not the type of people I’d want to associate myself with. We don't have to stay ”friends, ” but it doesn't have to break up the whole group.

As a Christian woman, my ideal place to find a husband would be at the church but I'm less likely to date pastors that have no other jobs. My problem is that I feel too much like a family that I wasn't able to see the guy(s) as a sexual being. Like I can't imagine sex with a brother like guys. That's mostly why I don't date guys from the church so far, but hopefully, that would change soon or I meet an exception.