Yeah well, you can't actively and continuously bang the same gender and call yourself straight. I don't care what you "feel" your sexuality is. I mean, you can call yourself straight because you have a mouth and autonomy, but you're not straight.

Just like if you're 6'4" and want to call yourself short. You do you boo, but since I need a common definition for the words we share, I'm going to label you tall. And before everyone gets all upset, I'm trans, I'm not a medicalist, my wife is ace. I'm not coming from a place of hate or lack of understanding.

Let me ask everyone, how do you feel about a cishet white man calling himself gay and being an outspoken voice for what he believes the queer community needs? All while only having ever had het sex and het relationships?

What if JK actually called herself a lesbian this entire time she has been trying to speak for the community, but she still had never had sex with a woman after 60 years?

This is where we end up if people just identify as whatever with no shared understanding of what the words actually mean because we have left the definitions completely useless.