I'm currently 13dpiui and married to my 6 month pregnant wife. I have been trying to concieve for 2 years and decided to let her have a try since it had been so long and we wanted a baby. Hers took the first at home attempt. I threw myself into iui and medications to so far no avail. I am on my second iui currently and so far I've had negative tests. I've been to every appointment and help her in every way I can, but this is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I sit and listen to people ask her all sorts of questions and ignore me. I watch her everyday live through the thing I want most in life. My advice is do not put yourself through it.