I was trying to edit my post and accidentally deleted. Then I saw you deleted, but I’m going to repost anyway.
Moving for a partner to a city you don’t like works best in one way, IMO.
This will benefit you BOTH in many ways. I’ll use my situation as an example.
If you feel you’re going into this at a disadvantage, don’t do it. It sets you up to be taken advantage of or puts you in a place of dependence where you lose your identity and become depressed. My best advice to you is to follow your own aspirations, acquire a place in your city you can always go to, and then “move in” in a way that still grants you both flexibility. Love him fiercely while loving yourself.