Although I can see your point, your tone was too harsh. As an example, calling people 'neurotic' is just too rude, don't you think? There are plenty of kinder ways to make your point.

You mentioned you are Asian, yes? So I believe you are aware of xenophobia against Asians especially about our looks. I believe you would also know that Asian families in general are very conservative e.g. being against LGBTQIA+ people.

My point is that it is quite a common occurence for many Asian LGBTIA+ people to feel left out or even insecure about themselves. Although I cannot speak for the OP and the actual intent of this post, posts like these reflect that.

And if you truly are Asian, you should understand that. And you should sympathize or at least be aware of how