LMAO. Are you me? Because this is literally me. The only difference is that I'm not diagnosed with adhd officially. He also forgot my birthday lmao, even after I told him TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY. but he didn't see the message and completely forgot about it. I'm still extremely bitter about it I'm not gonna lie. If one thing really hurt me from his apathetic attitude, it was this. I can't really advise you much as I'm struggling still, but I'm starting to accept the fact that he's not going to change. Either I'll have to get used to it somehow or let the relationship die naturally. I can't really bring myself to end it because I love him. So im just leaving the relationship to drive itself and try not to think about it. It helps that we're still long distance.