3. Be wary of those who say they want to "help"

Be wary of those who say they want to "help"

The people who wanted to "help" me hurt me more than anyone else. They complain about you, scapegoat you, and shit talk you around their friends but STILL want you around until they can discard you when they got their fix and pretend you don't exist afterwards. These people are honestly some of the most selfish and narcissistic people I have ever met, but they leave you looking and feeling like the bad guy while they cry to people about how "difficult" you were.then you ruminate on your "bad behavior", feel worse and "take responsibility" while these people lack self reflection. Why is it that I have to take the blame for their bulshit after THEY OFFERED to "help" you? Even if you're "bad", why is it that they never tell you to fuck off until AFTER they can discard you and humiliate you like trash? You feel bad for "hurting them" when they provoke you and push you to be in their image and if your not good enough they forget you just as quickly until they move on to their next victim. It's not altruism, it's not helpful, its SELFISH. These people hurt me and they will never face consequences but I get damage from them and then get told to "suck it up, everyone has problems" "oh they were just trying to help, why are you being so selfish?" and these same people talk down to you and pretend to be concerned about you. Had one person say "I'm worried about you" "I'm praying for you" "I will send help" where are they now? When they saw I was in a bad state they didnt even give a fuck, but they let me blame my self for "being difficult". More sadistic than any other person because of the high they get from you and their bullshit concern. More ugly too. Fuck them

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