Sex itself actually! I grew up super religious and never even humored desire or urges. Now thanks to finding myself, men who respect me and this subreddit being the real MVP - I am one of the most sex positive, sexually open individuals!

I seductively slid my foot up a partner’s leg recently and he responded my telling me he loved the color of my toes and then with me continuing, he opened up about how he has a thing for feet. Which long ago would’ve appalled me but him being vulnerable and me being the type that gets turned on by someone being turned on, I was so giddy he shared and without even thinking gave him a foot job and he told me later that night was the best session we’d ever had because he felt so free! Sexual openness is a beautiful thing.