Everyone is different so there's no way we can predict this. Personally, the only time I lose respect for so-called submissive men is when they can't adult without constant hounding and nagging. I'm very encouraging and relatively ambitious. I value growing as a person and growing in my career. So if my partner doesn't work enough to function as an adult, or earns close to minimum wage with no effort to better himself, that's when respect is lost. Serving me and doing as he's told only has a positive impact on my attraction for him. When he starts to learn what pleases me and doesn't have to be told to do every little thing, that means we get to grow in our FLR as I start to increase the stakes.