Lol you have only 7 days on this account and over 4k karma. I think you should spend less time speculating on “sus” dating patterns and get outside and meet actual people to date in your real life. Plenty of ethnicities deal with the expectation of women to be subservient, but it is definitely especially encouraged in my culture to just cater to your spouse without question or boundaries like they are royalty.

Then again, I don’t grandstand about “not sticking to my own kind” or go out of my way to avoid my own race. I have actually dated my own race and would still be open to if I met a dude progressive enough to have unlearned that machismo nonsense.