Your quite wise. I’m INFJ... yep it’s not about being superior as much as it is logic. Although logic can be used for emotional protection as well. If an INTJ respects you and or loves you they will find you endearing to an extant regardless. But to win generally it has to be rational or logical but even then it isn’t about winning really. I mean there is an element of competition but the winner is logic itself not the INTJ. It’s about truth whatever it may be. Truth wins wether you or they like it or not. This can go either way. Chances are if you point it out in truth you will be listened to. And take it seriously yet remember and remind them as well that it’s truth that wins.