Thank you for that. I appreciate this. But why though? Why would someone want to hack a dating account? If it is your own partner then yes okay we would try and get into it but someone that is not even linked to you? What info could anyone want in a dating app.... It just sucks and makes me sad. he said he did not. And I think i should leave it as being a hack.

I actually clicked on that link and it was a legit link - i manged to change the password as easy as that was but it sent an email to my partner's email course and he got the email. he called me straight away asking if I am doing anything on his emails as he just received an email about his old dating account and it was not him. He knows i do have access to his things. I do believe that it was possibly not him. It just sucks you know....