Just answering these: Exclusivity: Some of it, she definitely doesn’t do the overnight calls, or calls to say goodnight to anyone else. She does say ‘love you’ and everything to her other friends, but she doesn’t (I didn’t mention this in the post) have arguments daily about who loves the other more.

Intimacy: I know her really well, and I can tell her mood, I can even usually tell what she’s thinking, but I have no idea if she wanted me in the bed with her, but I do know it seemed like it, we kept just looking at each other and smiling for several minutes straight, and she kept talking about how much she liked it. She is affective physically, but that’s just who she is, she is to everyone, she actively seeks me out to hug me, and I will literally be a shoulder for her to cry on. She’s flirty in the sense she compliments me, and makes jokes, but honestly I don’t know if she’s flirty or not.

I compliment her all the time, she would normally just reply with that big eyes emoji, or say ‘no u’, but recently she started with more expressions of love, and genuinely complimenting me back, it seems more affectionate, but I really don’t know.

I want to be as close to her as possible, I love her more then anything, but I also don’t want to break up one day and lose our friendship, and I think that’s what she’s thinking to, and why she doesn’t know, but how do I know if I’m pushing it? I like having everything in the open, and I talked to her about this yesterday so I was going to talk to her tomorrow, but is that too early?