Hey! My name is Matt. I'm 34 years old and very unfortunately live in the US. Oh well. I still figured I'd send a message because...fuck it. :)
I enjoy working out, cooking, playing video games, watching tv, hanging out with friends, swimming, and all kinds of other stuff. I'm really laid back. Obviously, I do not want or have children. Children are a HARD NO from me.
I will say that I've been in the loop that you describe. I got really burned out on dating a while back and actually took a long break from dating in general to focus on myself. I think it was about a year and I enjoyed myself. I felt refreshed when I started dating again, which was nice.
I know it's frustrating to get to that point of closeness, cuddles, and sex, but it can be worth it when you find the right one...well, the right one for a few months or years or whatever. I haven't found the lifelong right one yet since I'm still searching. lol
I liked your post because I'm also very affectionate. I enjoy being close, holding hands, kissing, etc. I also enjoy kinky sex. I like a lot of variety, but oral is really my go to. Just be clear I very much enjoy both giving and receiving.
I have a few house plants myself. My peace lily has a rather large and pretty bloom on it right now. I own my house and enjoy renovating as well. I've always been a hands on person and do as much as I can when it comes to my house, yard, and car.
We'll probably never meet due to distance, but if you want to shoot the shit for a few days, weeks, or months or whatever I'd be down. We can talk about plants, home repairs, food, maybe a little sex, and even video games if you like them. You didn't mention them so I'm not sure.
I owe you a picture. Don't worry, they're PG. I save the naughty pictures for at the third message. lol