Oh, I don’t?
I’m currently working two jobs and going to college. That means I have to be up at 6am to catch the bus and be there for 8am. Then I have class until 4pm. I study until 6 then get home for 8, where I cook dinner for the next day. I work out and learn Spanish until 11. That’s Monday-Friday, every week.
On the weekend I work from 8am-6pm on a retail job, then from 8pm-1am at a restaurant. I make shit money, minimum wage, yet I still have time to take care of my health.
It’s a hard truth but you’re using your kids as an excuse to hide behind. Take responsibility for yourself. I’ve lived through the struggle of poverty and I never let that be an excuse for being a slob.