Am I an incel for refusing to date before I improve myself?

I agree that lots of people are shallow. Not everyone is shallow. Definitely work on yourself and continue to ‘improve’. But in the end, I don’t recommend anyone being upset if shallow people stay away. They are doing you a favor. If they want a fit, rich, land owner, they are a waste of time. I also don’t recommend hiding away just because you don’t think you are perfect. No one is perfect. Keep looking for a girl who also isn’t perfect. The worst that can happen is getting turned down.

Incels believe they deserve the love of the hottest woman in the area. That she isn’t actually human, but rather a sex toy for their amusement to become an ideal wife and servant. You really don’t sound like that.

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