I mostly browse those subs but I appreciate your care for not taking our voices, there is some hostility between our groups due to this unfortunately. Ultimately these questions get bogged down by what definition of trans you are using, and much of our frustration is that it's become such a broad term that by using it you can be speaking for a broad group of people with large differences. If non dysphoric non binary people want to form groups for solidarity im totally happy for you, just don't call me a bigot for wanting my own space with those that share my issues (that being a binary dysphoric trans person, sometimes called transsexual) I have zero problem with non binary people until they begin spreading what I view as bad information to cis people and completely devaluing the medical component of my condition.