Have you seen kylie Jenner's before and after pictures? She had no lips, she had a rectangular body. She was the definition of basic. Makeup, surgery, success in general changed that.

I think everyone has the ability to change. A guy that I'm really into now, just saw a picture of him without a beard and yikes lol. Beards tend to act as makeup for guys. Haircuts also play a huge role as well. The proper haircut can work wonders.

I dont think anyone is destined to be alone. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Destiny is something that cannot be changed, so why try? With that mindset, if you had no luck dating in your teens or college years, you'll take that same attitude and give up and basically waste the rest of youth. I'm in my early 20s and still havent had a boyfriend, but I refuse to give up. My neighbor (another female) never had a boyfriend and was a virgin. At 29 she met a guy and they got married and have a kid now.