Unless you're ridiculously overweight or ridiculously hot, your attractiveness doesnt matter a much to men. I get dismissed all the time too, mainly because I have ret*rded ideas, I'm sure you get that treatment because you're one too. It's not like I'm knife and bulletproof, I'm not particularly strong so I avoid the night too.

Tell me how have responsibilities for women changed over time. You've less expectations to be a home builder. For men, you're expected to remain the primary breadwinner, and increasingly take on domestic responsibilities. If you try dating apps, you'll very quickly see men are expected to be hot too, arguably even more than women.

Stopped reading at "no one is willing to listen to us", almost every single major event in recent times is geared towards your benefit (hashtagMeToo or HAES whatever).