Nah dude it isn't the same shit. Men do their fucked up shit on a different level, but it usually just involves being total assholes by doing things like getting nudes or something and sharing them even if they weren't supposed to, or just doing things to humiliate women because some guys are just really stuck up and mean. Or luring a woman into a relationship just to sleep with her and dump her. There's a couple others but by no means am I saying it's worse. I think what women do and what men do are both equally fucked up, but the way they do their damage is completely different. Dudes usually don't involve themselves in weird complex plans like women do.