Lemme try to give an analogy to the OPs situation
and y'all decide for yourselves

Lets consider this hypothetical situation:

OP's double from an alternate universe is an Black dude in america, and is having a hard time finding a girl.
all the matches he's getting are from his own community(Black) and he thinks he's better than all of them
> cuz I earn more and am more educated than most of the girls in question.

he wants to trade up and be with an Asian or white girl
but doesn't like the fact that, most Asian and White girls prefer to date within their own community. He thinks they're better off with him than Asian and White dudes
> like your daughter/ son isn't even that educated but will only settle for a partner from the same community even though his qualifications aren't that great

He doesn't understand or respect the preferences of White and Asian communities.
He is unable to handle the rejection from Asian and White communities and decides to blame them for his misfortunes
> but still got rejected based on race....like fuck man? Seriously what the eff are you going to do with race...I don't have a choice with whom I am born to.
> Like seriously some one needs to have an eye opener chat with these backward minded people.