If you only want to look at the negative side, you'll only see the negative. Girls will talk about abusive in laws and say they don't want to live with boy's parents. Boys will talk about how girl's ex killed her husband and say I prefer someone with no past. Crime patrol laga ke rakha hai sab ne. Negative thoughts attract what you fear the most. I respect your choices that you don't want someone with a past if you don't have one either. But I still think you're missing out on good people by being so judgemental. My female friends have dated too, all are loyal, caring but their partners didn't value them when they dated, so don't they deserve someone who gives back that love they deserve? It is again your choice if you feel insecure about it or just don't prefer, but I just hope you all find what you're looking for and stop posting these crime patrol episodes. :P