Can i turn my life around at 21

There is no doubt that you can. If you want to be successful you need to start with basic shit first. Its natural that you will be awkward if you sit in your room all day so try figure out things that you can do. A good start would be joining a gym > talk to people at the gym > try talking to girls at the gym and use that skill moving forward. Also you need to work or study.

The main key is that you need to be really fucking proud of yourself no matter how small of a victory. Three years ago I had ZERO friends and spend the weekends by myself being absolutely miserable. I pretty much sucked at math and flunked highschool. Now I am 21 and got two group of friends that I can hit up every weekend, and I am doing well education wise. When I barely passed my math courses I was fucking esthetic meanwhile some cunts would cry if they didn't get top grades.

The best part is that they for some reason my friends really respect me and get bumed out when I can't go out.

Learning how to climb out from pretty much living hell and learn to be happy and get along with people gives you a massive advantage. You will learn some really cool insights that most "normal" people have zero clue about, which is why I think my friends are cool towards me.

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