"allow him to be the leader." is negotiated authority.

"This is what God intended. It is a perfect, selfless plan." Goalpost moving

There's a reason I said "modern definition" over and over and over. It might have a been clue, or maybe I put it there for no reason.

If the word cuckoldry bothers your moral conscience I would recommend to pick up a Sunday School Bible. A regular one might cause you to stumble. God does stuff like comparing people to whores who want huge dick and the Apostle Paul openly talking about sexual immorality in order to correct his audience. Real crazy stuff. If your take away from Scripture is harsh words have no time or place I got bad new for you son.