"I don't think misogyny is real. Males aren't capable of hating women. At most, they have misdirected self-hate and insecurity toward others."

I can't speak for everyone but this is true for me. You feel angry and your hate gets misguided towards women.

"Sadly, a lot of males just seem to hate each other, and I think this is evident in some RP rhetoric"

I agree that there is a lot of hate amongst men but TRP doesn't advocate hate against men. It's actually the opposite. They advocate for not treating people like crap and if you put people down (man or women) then it's going to hurt your appearance.

"Particularly anxiety over a woman's partner count. They hate the idea of another male having had this woman, because they hate other males."

Might be true for some/most but another reason (at least for me) might be that they get frustrated at the fact that women have it easy when it comes to dating and having partners. And I feel envy towards women and then that envy turns into hate. To me, and like most guys, it's difficult to pick up girls because it's like there are these rules you have to follow and no one told you about them. But the red pill was actually helpful in figuring out which areas I had to improve on because asking a women on how to pick up women did not help at all in fact it made things worse.

"An example of where RP rhetoric only gets it partially right is in the stuff about males being sent to war. Yes, this is terrible and men shouldn't have to fight and certainly fighting to protect women is a misguided notion."

This is men's right and not the red pill.

"There's a couple of examples to give you an idea of what I mean. I think that RPers need to recognize this before they can honestly move forward with helping each other (and I'd be suspicious of the advice for men from men who intentionally espouse these ideals of male hatred)."

The red pillers do help other men. I think people just see the anger and hate because there are a lot of people angry there for not knowing how the dating world works and I can relate since I was one of those guys. The red pillers do provide men, who lack knowledge in those areas, a guide to follow which makes sense. It does not advocate treating women or other men like crap.