Janelle said she was never going AFTER the show (to Julie and interviews). Correct me if I'm wrong, she never said this before when she was still in the house. I also believe Janelle trashed the wedding AFTER the show. Again, correct me if I'm wrong on this as I don't watch the feed and only follow feed clips in this sub and twitter

It is bullying because Nicole could have told Janelle when she was in the house or waited til she leaves the house. But no, she wanted to do it in her goodbye message knowing full well the production would play it. The intention of doing is that is to be snarky and humiliate Janelle "hahaha I just disinvited you in public. I let everyone know I didn't want you in my wedding."

Janelle, in her defensive mode, said she was never gonna go anyway to save face. I do believe, she might have other plans that day and was never 100% committed to going. But since Nicole did what she did, Janelle had no choice but to say she was never going.