I feel irritable, overly sensitive, resentful, confused, lonely… and I was becoming withdrawn and avoiding physical contact with him completely.

This feels like exactly where I’m at right now. Except that it’s after we’ve had the latest conversation about our relationship/sex life rather than leading up to one. So now he’s ‘trying’ (but not really because it’s clear he didn’t actually listen to what I was saying and won’t address/answer anything I said) and I’m the one who feels like I have to make him feel better even though until I said something he actually thought everything was just fine (he actually thought we were in a “great place” while I was thinking it’s the worst we’ve ever been)

I’m just so fucking tired