A part of me can relate to a small extent because I remember asking myself years ago when I first started learning about asexuality and about myself “am I actually asexual or am I just conceding that I think I’m ugly and have no self esteem whatsoever/will never be in a relationship” (I thought that maybe my lack of attraction was more to do with me thinking no one would like me) until I learned that yes I am actually asexual and I wasn’t just lying to myself

I hope that this guy will get some sort of help because it really sounds like he needs it but also hope that he’ll quit this “pretending to be ace” because I worry it’ll help continue to spread misinformation