I believe you will someday find something else to live for than to revenge all imaginary wrongdoings

So, you think that by chatting with people on the net, I am revenging something? :D

Also, "imaginary wrongdoings", lol. Go tell the families who lost their fathers, sons or brothers to the German military machine that providing it with weapons throughout the war with an a-ok thing to do.

Then you will maybe understand that majority of so called western world in fact do not hate Russian people

Really? That's not what I'm seeing in the media and the public discourse, as far as the opinions of the people who care goes. Go read some /r/worldnews or /r/europe.

and do not blame it for any wrongs of the past

Oh man; haven't you been screeching of the evil Russians and their occupation just a comment ago?

Look, it appears like an incredibly obvious thing to understand. Russia was up for a friendly relationship on whatever terms the West offered throughout the 90ies; it seeked cooperation and mutual engagement throughout the 2000ies. What it got in return was systematic hostility, with military patrols ceaselessly at our borders, NATO bases creeping ever closer to our borders, and the anti-missile systems (ostensibly not aimed against us, they just so happen to be pointed our way) seeking to undermine the MAD - which, I remind you, the only thing to keep the world from a thermonuclear apocalypse. As well as exclusion extending as far as barring Russian investors from acquiring Western companies (remember Sberbank-Open deal, now it's the same with oil, etc). If you consistently display hostility towards Russia, it won't keeping backing off endlessly.

And just for the record: 80 000 deaths is 1% from 8 millions which was approximate population of Czechoslovak Republic after Munich agreement.

I actually went with 14.8 from here in my percentage calculations, but not that it matters, agreed.