Confused af right now. Met this guy (A) online( and no it wasn't from a dating app), talked for a year and finally met. We've been seeing each other for almost 2 months now,we kiss each other, did some stuff( no there wasnt any sex involve, just less than sex but more than french kisses) and act like a couple, and the communication is constant. Then, just last week, a stranger I randomly met a months ago and talked about books and life at a book shop (10 days before A and I agreed to meet up) messaged me. I actually went back to that shop 3 days after we met, hoping I would see him again there but I didn't so I thought he was gone, and forgot about me, but he didn't. Then just this New Year, he asked for my number and hoped that we could see each other again. So me, being a"loyal" person, asked "A" what we were and all he said was that we're "best friends" and that we're on the way "there". The only thing I'm hesitant with A is because he has a lot of female (almost naked) friends on facebook and his likes are mostly related to sexy stuff like xxx,hot, sexy, those kind of stuff. His barkadas jokes on comments about him being a womanizer in his post. Plus, whenever we're together he sometimes mentions different girls even gay people to me, and tells me that they kind of had a crush/ like him. And I just nonchalantly laugh it off or smile, or give a complimentary reaction. But aside from those mentioning of other people, when we're together he's really nice. He's a good person and really caring. In just have a gut feeling that I'm not the only person he talks to, or maybe I'm just paranoid. Although he says "im the only one" and whenever I tease him about it, but he then puts this "oh you still dont trust me" move. He said he likes and "loves" me. Yet, it's really just hard to trust. Now I want to give B a chance, because he's really respectful, nice and the thing he post/talks about are relevant and informative and really motivational. He's really religious. He kind of has that "Bo Sanchez" aura haha. I have to say this he's the kind of person you want to be around with. Now I don't know what to do. What should I do. I'm blind when it comes to this. I've asked for signs and still im confused. I just need some external opinion from strangers. I'm so sorry for the long post.