Dating

I downloaded Bumble (a couple others before that) and I honestly went there for conversation at first. I never had a relationship or anything before and I wasn't sure what I wanted so I was open to a lot of people.

There was this guy who would only respond to me like, in the evenings and that's it. Even when we exchanged phone numbers, he'd be silent for most of the day.

I found out that his sleep schedule is literally waking up at 3-4pm. And I usually wake up way earlier and by that time, I'm already tired. Two years later, I now compromise with him by waking up around 1pm on off days.

Not saying that your dude might have a wild sleep schedule, but there are many explanations other than him not being interested. Also, i never expected someone to text me most of the day when I was on the app. Hours between conversations is pretty normal. Hell, I was okay with a convo or two a day from some. People be busy.

Just give it time. You're deserving of love whether you find someone through the app or not.

/r/youngadults Thread