Honestly, it's a lot of things, but I believe it boils down to the fact that the tabloids have a clear agenda against her. From the moment she came onto the scene, the media felt a need to compare her to Kate middleton by villyfying her. The infamous avocado headlines that were something along the lines of " prince william does this cute thing to help kate with her morning sickness " and " meghan favourite snack is fueling a drought and murder "

So that was the beginning of it, the media needed a big bad to make kate look great and meghan happened to be just that. She entered the scene in around 2016 and from that moment until the oprah interview she basically took whatever shit was flung her way , only once saying that no one ever bothered to ask her if she was okay. Come oprah interview she speaks on her experience and immediately the tabloids take it out of context and misconstrue her words. " she spoke bad about the queen " she didn't," she said they were racist" she said someone questioned the color of her babies skin and truly is that impossible to believe? From a family that breeds horses and that comes from a line of people willingly choosing incest to keep the bloodline pure, do you truly think they had no problem ?

People say she always complains, but she's given 3 interviews so far, oprah, cut, and the variety one. And honestly she has done few complaining, i think the fact that 1 interview from her generates more than 50 articles is why people think she complains a lot. Infact there was a time when she wasn't seen for however many days it was and articles were written about her absence and even assumptions.

She is allowed to complain about her past experiences, she said the deal or no deal thing made her feel not great because she was just treated as a pretty face, people take issue with this because she later took sexual roles, but so what? If the cast and directors of said roles treated her with respect then obviously she'd feel better than she did on deal or no deal.

Let me not even get to how everyone tries to discredit everything she says. Not to mention the various allegations thrown her way with no proof, I've seen people say she used a surrogate for her pregnancies and then those same people turn around and fat shame her for not losing the baby weight fast enough, or the bullying allegations from "sources" yet for all the years she was in hollywood and worked on suits, no such thing about her came out, now to you, does it make sense that someone with a fairly clean reputation would suddenly turn into a she demon when placed among aristocrats? Also private investigators were hired, one found her SSN and medical records, surely any bullying she did would've come out then too right? But no, it only came out in order to discredit her oprah interview

With Meghan markle, she truly is damned if she does and damned if she doesn't and honestly good for her for still speaking on the things that matter to her and getting attention to the causes. Because unfortunately when it comes to her, people are more likely to believe the tabloids and anonymous sources instead of the words that come right out of her mouth.