Just when we were about to have dinner, he said he wasn't going to eat South Indian food, and was going to buy something at a restaurant. NA1 heard it, and screamed at him, telling him "you can't just leave and do as you please, this isn't America!" He told her to shut up, and he would do what he wants, but then NA1 threatened to take his phone and computer away. He got the message, and ate home food, but he still kept complaining about it.

I don't understand the issue here. If he's 23,and wants to go out and spend his own money on food, what's the problem?

If my extended family started screaming at me randomly, I would start getting pretty snarky and sarcastic with them too over time. Fuck that noise.