Not PIV sex but my best friend (who was black) gave me my first kiss, my first fingering, and my first oral sex experience. We never straight up had sex because neither of us really felt the need to. We just never went that far or talked about going that far. We were friends who were messing around.

Did your family or freinds approve is disapprove?

He gave me a hickey once, completely by accident, and neither of us realized it. In fact the first person to notice was my dad....at dinner.... My parents (bless them) sat me down and had a "We love and support you, but, certain people in this area might say mean things to you or straight up assault you for being with a black man." Which was hilarious to me because 1) it wasn't anyone's business. 2) he was just my best friend and we practiced stuff on each other. Of course I told him this conversation took place, he was confused too. We tested this theory in front of some people giving us dirty looks and were chased by an angry man in a pickup truck once.

Do you find physical stereotypes about black men to be true?

Not in him at least. Some people align with stereotypes, others don't. That's how it is with pretty much everyone. He was a total nerd (we both were) and was really into anime and DDR.

Are they more well-endowed and better lovers than white men?

Again not in my tiny personal experience. The most well-endowed guy and best lover I've had was white. This guy was average-to-slightly above average endowment wise. The least endowed guy (and also worst lover) I've had was hispanic.

Do you consider them to be hypermasculine compared to other races?

Not really, it depends on the guy and the local culture I guess. I see a lot of white "dude-bro" types and I feel like that is hypermasculine. (and really fucking obnoxious) I think a guy can exhibit hypermasculine behavior but it's not race dependent.