I think PottyMouth’s comment went a bit over your head. I completely agree that moderation is key when it comes to sexualization of ones significant other. OP’s husband should be complimenting her in many other ways as well as her appearance. However, I think PottyMouth was trying to make a constructive comment about how more communication might be needed as well as thinking about the reasons why OP feels uncomfortable by her husbands behavior such as his lack of compliments of other things or her feeling too sexualized overall. Either way, you sort of just repeated what we already know in a way. Obviously OP is a human being that has many great qualities about her, she cares about her marriage enough to seek out advice and try to work towards a solution. Instead of adding anything constructive it more so seems like you’re stating the obvious in a very argumentative way. I wish OP the best of luck with her situation but it’s comments like these that hurt more than help.