Thank you so much. I do have a therapist and while we literally just had our intake last week, I will be speaking about this to him at this weeks appointment as I definitely have to. I just want to remain as cool and calm on the outside for her sake as I can. Last thing I want to do is worry her more but at the same time I don’t want want her to not be aware of the potential gravity of this situation and where it could go from here. It’s like a fine line I guess.

I’m going to look into a PI today, I heard they’re expensive but when it comes to something like this I don’t care, her safety is more important than money. Due to his common name he is really difficult to find any info on.

We are going to get stuff today - cameras, pepper spray which I always wanted her to have anyway, and look into doing more from there. Thank you for your post because it just reenforces what I know we need to do which is get ahead of this thing before he does something else