Gays of reddit, What was your most oblivious moment when someone was hitting on you only to realize it moments later when both of you parted ways?

Back in my high school days, I have this classmate of mine (who is also my friend as we're in the same group of friends) who gets too touchy with me. 1. He always sits on my lap everywhere and every time he gets a chance (regardless if there are people around). He leans up to my stomach so I guess he can feel my crotch in his butt. He also does this when we're inadvertently next to each other in line. He would pull me close to his back so my crotch would be touching his butt or he would pull me close to him so his crotch is on my butt. And most of time he's got a hard on, such a tease. He’s got a bubble butt tho so I guess I felt cozy when he’s sitting on me that I didn’t care. 2. If not, he sits beside me in the classroom and always leans his head on my shoulders. He even does this while class is ongoing. 3. He always sits close to me when we're drinking and always, always puts his hands around me and he always refills my cup of beer whenever it gets empty. Because of that I get hammered twice as fast. During this time, he sits closer to me, with his arms around me, and starts to subtly caress parts of my body and to talk close to my ears. He always do this when I'm drunk enough that I don't even care what he's doing anymore. 4. If he's not feeling my crotch with his butt, he's gonna cop a feel with his hand. He does this whenever he gets a chance at it. He flicks it when I pass by each other in the hallway, grabs it when we’re playing rough, etc. And he likes to do this when we’re on gym class day and wearing jogging pants where your crotch is practically open for bulge grabbing. 5. He always tries to kiss me as well on the cheeks, forehead, lips, and even my nipples one time. 6. The most cocky thing he did was when me and another friend of mine had to crash at his place because are so hammered. We were sleeping at his room. Me and another friend is on his bed while he’s on a sleeping mat beside his bed. In the middle of the night, I woke up with his hands inside my shorts and practically jacking me off. I was still too drunk but was already hard so I did not care and pretended to be asleep. He did not finish me off though cause I think my friend is starting to awake from the rocking of the bed. It felt really good though. I still played that one off but that got me thinking. Well the thing is, he’s so sweet with me when he is naturally a goofball and toughie, a total jock bro. He always say how cute and smart I am and that the girl I’ll be with will be so lucky and stuff like that. I was an innocent, passive, nerdy guy back then and was just starting to question my sexuality that I was so oblivious with the things he was doing to me except of course after the time he jacked me off. The catch is this, he’s very hot. He is our varsity basketball team captain so he is very sporty which gave him a very nice body. He’s not too ripped but he got the muscle and abs going. He is also very good-looking and he’s one of the so-called “heartthrobs of the campus”. Unfortunately, the jacking off thing happened almost by the end of our senior year so all of those things, his looks, my sexuality (and his) only became clear to me too late.

We still see each other from time to time during college and after graduation since we’re in the same group of friends. Although, he “manned up” from then on and had stopped doing those touchy things to me which is sad cause he’s even way hotter now. I wish it dawned on me earlier so I could have acted upon him. I wish he breaks up with his girlfriend so I can flirt with him lol. Just kidding, they’re both my good friends and I am happy they got it going good for 3 years now. Oh well, at least I get to experience the other side of him that I guess he wishes to be buried. We did not talk about it ever nor do I want to since we are friends after all. Although, I still think of the things that might have happened if I was able to reciprocate to his advances.

TL;DR: Got hit on and molested by hot high school basketball team captain and played it off for years. Regret is felt up to this day.

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