Yeah unless youve lived this life, then suffered the gaslighting of 'size doesnt matter' making you go insane, its hard yo truly understand and comprehend but I hope what I wrote shares some understanding.
Statistically speaking I'm at the 60-70% mark for length and 90% mark for girth, needing large condoms due to the latter, and how 'small' I am has been beaten in and literally controls my life despite a lot of therapy.
It's the only type of body shaming that's not only acceptable but encouraged and engaged in by 95% of the population. Can't go anywhere or watch anyrhing with a small or large penis reference, it never stops.
Yet a guy like me is expected to be confident.
It's tough.