Guy I’m seeing insists on waiting before sex

Yeah unless youve lived this life, then suffered the gaslighting of 'size doesnt matter' making you go insane, its hard yo truly understand and comprehend but I hope what I wrote shares some understanding.

Statistically speaking I'm at the 60-70% mark for length and 90% mark for girth, needing large condoms due to the latter, and how 'small' I am has been beaten in and literally controls my life despite a lot of therapy.

It's the only type of body shaming that's not only acceptable but encouraged and engaged in by 95% of the population. Can't go anywhere or watch anyrhing with a small or large penis reference, it never stops.

Yet a guy like me is expected to be confident.

It's tough.

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