Many women want a male friend they can talk too, especially if they read you as a man who will not judge them. They want some male energy without any risks, risk of judgement or the risk involved if she had to commit to you as a lover.

I try to never judge someones choices and try to see the merit in their argument- I guess the lonely years have just worn me down to the point that i no longer have the energy to engage on that level.

In the end do its something you've got to figure out if you want to accept it or not.

I don't care really. I'm pretty much dead inside when it comes to romance. I don't hate or blame anybody for this. Its not something i can do anything about at this. So i learned to live with it.