From experience: A girl which I rejected because the whole society said she is dirty to me. See she was with my friend, and then she became interested in me, because my bff was an asshole which would guilt shame anyone whom have different opinions, and would never not once listen, she did not say that. She asked me out after being with me along time. Know everyone at school told me to rejected why because they hated me. I rejected here wanting to be my gf. She tried asking me out for couple times. The reason for why I rejected here was I realized that had society which not want me to, I had alot problems home, society treated me like shit already this would fuel would add gasoline to a situation I did not have control over. And 3 the most important thing I was a someone who saw things from other side weaknesses. See I was "brainwashed" into thinking that anyone loving me was being less than me. So for here sake I wanted here to grow up and not need me as I did not want here to be hurt as I have been hurt. That she did not need me. At that time i realized I never knew anything about getting or having a relationship, so I saw not ever trying to be good (I still had an inferiority complex). So simply said I saw here loving me as an explotation and instead of passing the cycle said no as to not exploit, when others would.
If you want to understand my mind. See love and affection got me to being bullied, actually I was bullied precisely because I stopped bullies right Infront of the teacher from then on I was annoying. So what she was doing was seen as weak as I was weak. This made me realize my own situation that I been putting everyone Infront me. From telling others adults they said that western women are emotionally unstable, and they felt sry for me. And likewise attitude from classmates. Now I ask that would they do the same no. I realize that most said this out jealous and spite. As I do understand how they would react when it was my friend as that was normal it was love. Also it was insinuated at the age 12 when she was with best friend that he should fuck the rabbit and leave. Of course that was not my friend did he fell in love showed everyone what asshole he is then blamed it on her yeah, and fucked the rabbit as well no one was wiser, and he continued to do so after that. My emotionally unstable friend looked to me as a pillar and closest support, however I wanted her to support herself as that me being here problem would not solve that.
When my family heard about this situation they thought of me as shamann or sinning. That said as I was supported that I fun to put the Dick in the pig.
This friend I had, if I was different like everyone, would in my eyes been raped, exploited possibly for years, as my friend did. Have her future ruined, slutshamed, and possibly very much so done suicide. Thats what gets me it's that it was likely and this happened to me, that these things that I never conceived of could and do happen. Like knew but I did not know till it hit me. Like driving a car understanding that you don't have breaks.
People can say she consented, to all this that she wanted this but I know better.