You don't know what a personal attack is

These would be the personal attacks.

I do; you could stand to.

what have you done? Besides fake concern

You sure seem to only show regard for one.

I do think I'm more empathetic than you

you seem to think every woman who disagrees with you isn't "calm" (there goes that "irrational women" trope),

Feminism and womens'/equal rights need all the allies they can get.

I don't care about alienating you, you're not some powerful ally or someone who has made a difference.

Here is the thing, you have agreed with both of my main points.

I feel bad for anyone sent to prison on false testimony and evidence; but also I feel sorry for the far, far, far greater number of women and men who will never see justice for what was done to them.

Rape itself is horrible regardless of your gender

Literally those statements put you in full alignment with my opinions. After that we are bickering over whether emphasizing rape as a women's issue vs a societal issue helps women more than it hurts men. And that is a fine side conversation to have. But the main points we agreed on.

I will be the first to admit after re reading that I should not have said

No but you are supposed to actually care about it to some degree.

I felt like you were saying in one statement you cared and showing in another you didn't.

The rest of your attacks on me and trying to make me into a straw man who's opinions I don't hold are there for anyone else to see who wants to.

I'm sorry you don't feel feminism needs random small allies. It does. And the fact that two anonymous people who agree could have a conversation like this is indicative of how easy it is to fight rather that cooperate.