I thought about this a little more and think it is funny when a woman says "men need to stop raping" it is somehow obvious you don't mean "not all men" but when I say "many women I talk to" it's so obvious I meant all women. If a man gets offended when women say "men need to stop raping" and says "it's not all men" he is diverting the discussion and not understanding the actual issue, but when I say "many women I talk to" and you get offended because you somehow interpret "many women I talk to" to mean "every woman ever," it's totally okay and acceptable for you to come in here and lecture me about how women are people and not all 100% the same. How do you not see it as a double standard? It doesn't even matter what the content is.
If I wanted to be a dick I could easily say it is obvious the majority of women in this thread don't care what the actual problem is or how to fix it - they just need me to know I'm the problem and there's no possible way that this might actually be an issue I face with MANY WOMEN THAT I TALK TO. Do I really need to start adding disclaimers to every thing I say in order to prevent women like you and others in this thread from making stupid and incorrect assumptions? Do you not see how the problem here is the women making these assumptions? This is EXACTLY the problem I have. I say "many women I talk to you" and you decide I really mean "All women everywhere ever past present and future." I came to a thread called "askwomenadvice" in order to ask women how to talk to women, but these women here choose not to see it that way, rather, I'm obviously just trying to start shit and make problems and "confirm my beliefs." smfh.