In every big manifestation, there'll be aspects you can do.. up to a point in which you need some higher help.

The skill is in carving out the bits you can do with effort, and totally focusing on making progress with that. Have the integrity to not expect anything until you've maxed out on the areas within your domain.

• You wanna be an artist, make the songs. The visibility will come.

• You want more friends, cultivate a lifestyle that's interesting for yourself. Like minded people will come.

• You want abundance of money, take responsibility for more people. Abundance will follow

Etc.

The trick is to do it to one's ruin. To determine to exist in that way for life... not because it brings results, but because it's the way you want to exist.