^ I'm sad it came off that way. Really strayed away from putting the link in the original post for that very reason.

I know the way we present information in such a public forum is everything. And I'm genuinely sorry for being super new to this space and not knowing exactly how to do that.

But if these concepts help anyone reading this, I'm more than happy to look like an ass for posting it.

Ultimately, this is something we rarely talk about.

We spend so much time looking for the answers to our sexual "problems" and "dysfunctions."

But we rarely stop to ask if we're "broken" to begin with.

It's so hard to believe that we're enough, because there are countless products out there to tell us we aren't.

I used to think my above average cock was tiny because all I had to reference was porn. I used to think I had to be better and learn more to ever have the sex I wanted.

And fuck. It's just not okay.

A friend of mine has been working as a sexual empowerment coach for 20 years. She was telling me the other day how rare it is for her to NOT hear some form of "I'm broken," when she dives in with her clients.

This is the saddest thing in the world to me. I've lived it. I know I'm so fortunate to have a really rare community of coaches and therapists who openly talk about sex like they're talking about toothpaste.

And I know there are so many people who don't. So many people who feel not only broken, but also alone.

And this is something I'm so unbelievably passionate about breaking down.

Because it's just not okay to feel like that when there's really a way out.

If anyone is here to get real and talk about this, know that 1) you're not alone, and 2) I'm here for you as a resource.

So much love to all of you.