Does he still actually live with NSis? My SO lives at home and is finishing school, but dropped school to make enough money to move out because he's going crazy living there! My mom offered to help him financially get him a place to live and stuff for 6 months no strings attached just so he can get up on his feet but he won't accept the help! He was NC with his sister but she came home for thanksgiving so it was LC for that and I assume Christmas will be the same.

Up until he tried to move out into my house though they always let me come over for holidays and stuff but now I'm not allowed near their son let alone their house. Obviously we still see each other but this sneaking around is driving me insane I feel like I'm in Fucking highschool again! He won't even stand up for himself let alone me which hurts a lot because they have said a lot of untrue hurtful things about me but I keep reminding myself not to get too upset because how can I expect him to defend me when he can't even defend himself.